It was probably many years ago when you started thinking and dreaming of this day... if you are like Monica (Friends), you even have a 10" binder full of photos, notes and ideas!
Today, with the increased cost of living, you might not be able to spend as much as you thought you could... does that mean you have to give up your dream? Absolutely not!
Here are a few tips to help you stick to your budget without compromising your vision:
CHOOSING YOUR DAY
If you have found the location of your dreams and you are a bit flexible with your date, try to ask the manager about any particularly slow weekend or any day other than Saturday for
which they would offer a discount... most of them do!
WHO IS COMING?
Nobody likes or wants to do it, I know... but prioritizing your guest list is a must! Think of the positive side: by limiting your head count, not only you will free up some funds to put towards those elements you just can't do without, you will also have the guarantee to be in the company of the people who are most important to you!
DECOR
You do not have to have dozens of roses to create stunning centerpieces: candles can have the same effect and create a beautiful atmosphere. They also offer many design options as they can be enhanced by flowers or ribbon in your color scheme. You can also find inexpensive containers to fill with finds from the local wholesaler.
WHAT'S ON THE MENU?
So the guest list can't be touched... what about the meal? Instead of a very expensive seated dinner, you could have a fun and extravagant cocktail party with passed hors d'oeuvres and action food stations (a great opportunity for your guests to mingle). If a more traditional approach is best for you, talk to your caterer: they surely can come up with some substitutes for the most expensive ingredients in your dishes.
THE BAR TAB
As you might already know, a signature drink is a great option, but not the only one: limit your selection of beers to domestic and see if the venue will allow you to bring in your own wine without charging you a fee (corkage). Eliminate cordials and liqueurs.
DECIDING WHAT'S IMPORTANT
The biggest piece of advice I could ever give a couple is to begin their journey by figuring out their expectations for the big day: make a list of your priorities and share them with each other so when you have to deal with budget issues, you will be able avoid conflict because you will already know what is important and what can be adjusted.
Be creative and enjoy the experience!
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